in the intense battle for the democratic nomination a year ago, my wife asked me at the kitchen table
“who do you want to win, obama or hillary?”
i rarely see things in black and white, and she doesn’t like it one bit. i go into this long winded pros and cons, without answering the question. she insists. i ended with
“i want obama to win. mainly because it’s a lot harder for a black man to win in america than a white woman”.
i am glad a black man will now run the show in the white house. mr.O, you don’t need to create miracles. just please don’t f*&@ up, lest the world forever loses faith in the color of your skin.
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having lived the life as a reasonably well-off upper-caste life in india, i’ve come to a rude shock in the US in the very first few years. i once went to an auto dealership in shoddy used car, wanting to get pricing on a new car (in woodland hills, ca in san fernando valley of los angeles). the fellow at the dealership pretty much dismissed me, with a message to my face to the effect that i have no chance of buying a new car, i am probably illegal immigrant, and there’s no business for me in the dealership.
you are the dalit there. a very smart, hard-working dalit. you doing well in the united states is recognized and appreciated. to me, that really means that we exceeding a very low expectation of brown-skin people – and that’s to be an attendant at a liquor-shop/gas-station/highway motel. in a flippant way, we are the “projects” of the good-hearted white people.
obama is no “project”. he won with a positive vision for the country and a message that resonated through all skin colors. and his win wouldn’t have been a landslide if it wasn’t also a purgatory for american people. a detox of what george w. bush represents. a cup of green tea after a long night of johnny walker.

Touche.. hope for the best…
On your experience at the car place.. idiots are everywhere
indeed, yeah. i guess i vented a bit there.
mistreatment and prejudice will NOT end till you stand up for yourself.
Will not forget how in one meeting the desi board member in my condo association put down the white schoolteacher board member who literally frothing from her mouth that her time is ‘too precious to argue with you people’ – He told her: ‘my client pays me $250 an hour for my time, and I am here. If you think your time has more value , feel free to go’.
It worked. She shut up immediately, and *never* again argued with the person in question. Sometimes being assertive works beautifully. Might not work with neo-nazi supremacists, but with the types mentioned above, yes.
Sandra Dalene VanAlstine – Wanted to introduce myself
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Sandra Dalene VanAlstine